​In this slim, wonderful book, Dr. Ault promises to take you, step by step, through the process of disengaging from an abusive partner — and she delivers. I'm author of Lovefraud.com and have read many books about dealing with disordered people. This is the most clear, concise and helpful “how to” for breaking away from a toxic person that I have ever read.

I loved this whole book, and the empowering ending was no exception. Ault provides realistic ways to heal, move on, and transform a dark experience into something good. I know I will look back frequently on these pages to remind myself what a healthy relationship should look like. It is very clear from every word that this author has found self-respect and love from her experience. I thank her for sharing it with the rest of us in such a beautiful and informing way.

This is an excellent book to help explain the behavior of narcissist. The author is an expert in this field....and helps explain to those in these type of relationships that we are not crazy or "losing it".....and that help is available.

This book is a legitimate eye opener. Illuminating during the moments of self doubt and reviewing past situations. Thank you!

have recommended this book to various friends of all sexual orientations. I think most people will find that they've encountered someone like this during their life, and there are very few authors who will help you through the process like Dr. Ault. We can all learn and heal from The Wise Lesbian Guide!

​I highly recommend this book. Ault educates us about the behavioral red flags exhibited by lesbians (or anybody) with each of these disorders, giving lots of examples ... She provides good advice on how to safely get out of these types of relationships and how to recover from them. The book is written using plain terms, is down to earth, and is very readable. It should be on every lesbian's bookshelf, especially if she is looking for a partner or spouse.

​In this slim, wonderful book, Dr. Ault promises to take you, step by step, through the process of disengaging from an abusive partner — and she delivers. I'm author of Lovefraud.com and have read many books about dealing with disordered people. This is the most clear, concise and helpful “how to” for breaking away from a toxic person that I have ever read.

I loved this whole book, and the empowering ending was no exception. Ault provides realistic ways to heal, move on, and transform a dark experience into something good. I know I will look back frequently on these pages to remind myself what a healthy relationship should look like. It is very clear from every word that this author has found self-respect and love from her experience. I thank her for sharing it with the rest of us in such a beautiful and informing way.