WELCOME. I'M GLAD YOU'RE HERE.


The personal is political.
The social is emotional.
Peace is possible.
Love is worthwhile.​
The world is macro. Your heart is micro. Your love life connects them.


I specialize in helping people who are:


Struggling in toxic relationships

Recovering from relational trauma

Seeking to improve and preserve important relationships

Working to reduce narcissistic behavior

Navigating detransition

Struggling with partners’ or children’s trans medicalization



If you are feeling chronically exhausted, frustrated, angry, worried, confused, shut-down, anxious, traumatized, grief-stricken, or bad about yourself, you’ve landed on a good resource.



The problem may be with a partner or Ex, a co-parent, a parent, a sibling, an adult child, or someone in your work-life. You feel constantly on edge and frequently blind-sided, exploited, disappointed, manipulated, gas-lighted, and stuck in no-win situations. 



I get it. I believe you. I know you are hungry for change.  



My practice is dedicated to helping people struggling to be relaxed, peaceful, and happy with themselves, in their bodies, and in their relationships. It's doing the world no good for you to be not living your best life. You owe it to yourself, the people who love you, and the community you live in to change these dynamics or to get yourself to higher ground. 



I know how to help you reset your sense of direction, build skills for regaining your emotional freedom, protect yourself from further damage, and recover.  



It's a pleasure to be on the journey with you.

I appreciate all the support you've given me in this year of change and growth. It's amazing to look back at all the things that have happened in a year. I feel like a much stronger person than I was this time last year... You're great at what you do.

Private coaching client

I appreciate all the support you've given me in this year of change and growth. It's amazing to look back at all the things that have happened in a year. I feel like a much stronger person than I was this time last year... You're great at what you do.

Private coaching client

Hello Amber! I wanted to wish you Happy Holidays and to let you know that I am doing GREAT!!! You were so right about holidays being awesome without a Narcissist!! Thanksgiving and my birthday were both amazingly drama-free and the best ever!!! I cannot believe how HAPPY and at PEACE I am. I truly had no idea how miserable I was until the smoke cleared. There is zero chaos in my life anymore. What a toll that took. Thought you'd want to know how I'm doing.

Private coaching client

Hello Amber! I wanted to wish you Happy Holidays and to let you know that I am doing GREAT!!! You were so right about holidays being awesome without a Narcissist!! Thanksgiving and my birthday were both amazingly drama-free and the best ever!!! I cannot believe how HAPPY and at PEACE I am. I truly had no idea how miserable I was until the smoke cleared. There is zero chaos in my life anymore. What a toll that took. Thought you'd want to know how I'm doing.

Private coaching client

Uncover New Paths

Dive into my comprehensive counseling offerings designed to support your journey. Explore individual therapy, couples’ sessions, and intensive retreats tailored to overcome complex relationship challenges with expert guidance.

Powerful Coaching

Tailored sessions provide individuals with the tools and support needed to navigate the emotional challenges and personal growth required during difficult times in their relationships.

For Couples in Trouble

Offering a supportive, strategic approach for couples facing difficulties, these sessions create a space to rebuild communication, trust, and emotional connection.

Detransitioners

Comprehensive support for individuals undergoing the complex process of detransitioning, guiding them through personal challenges and helping them reclaim their identity with dignity.

Personalized Care for Your Needs

With 15 years of dedicated experience, my practice thrives on offering transformative solutions for individuals and couples navigating challenging relational dynamics. Specializing in personalized care, I equip clients with tools for healing and growth.

Expert Guidance Provided

Clients appreciate my strategic insight and humor, navigating even high-conflict scenarios effectively.

Tailored Healing Plans

I utilize trauma-informed, multisystemic approaches to tailor healing plans for each unique situation.

Direct Communication

I offer direct communication, ensuring even complex situations are addressed empathetically and effectively.

Immersive Retreat Experiences

My specialized retreats offer immersive experiences for overcoming toxic relational patterns effectively.

Supporting Diverse Families

I offer strategic divorce support, emphasizing understanding to benefit all involved, especially families.

Convenient Online Support

With robust online options, I provide flexible scheduling to accommodate varied client needs.